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summer divorce femminineo attorneys macomb county michiganSummer should be a fun time for couples and families. The weather is nicer. There are vacations to look forward to. School is out and obligations are far fewer. While divorce rates may peak at the very start of the year, there are situations and occasions during the summer that can push a shaky marriage to the brink and have a couple deciding that it’s finally time to get a Michigan divorce.

Vacations

Maybe he drinks more than you would like, maybe she isn’t all that nice after all, maybe you have different ideas about what’s fun and what constitutes a true vacation. No one says you both must love the beach or theme parks to make it work, but compromise is at the heart of every healthy marriage.

If you’ve reached the point where you’re unyielding about the kind of couples’ vacation you’re taking, or the kind of vacay that’s right for your family, this is an opportunity to figure out why you’re now resistant to what your spouse wanted, where in the past you would have been willing to honor their wishes just to be happy together.

Reunions

Getting together with blood relatives – or non-blood relatives, as the case may be – can remind you that your spouse may not be the most popular person in the family. When in the past you may have defended him or her, or been proud to go against the grain, the imperfections that rub others the wrong way may be bothering you now too.

You may be more susceptible to criticisms from family, realizing that maybe they were right all along about you not necessarily choosing the right mate or that your blended family would never work. Or maybe you’re the one who’s the odd man out, and you’re with your in-laws. An occasion like this can highlight to you why your union is just not right, and make you think about why now is the time to get out and start over.

Social Events

Summer is the time for parties, cookouts, and togetherness with friends. These gatherings can make it clear, however, that things in your marriage are a little rocky. Where you once thought his jokes were funny or her shyness endearing, time with friends – old or new – can make you see that what once made you proud to call your spouse your spouse is what drives you crazy, and may even embarrass you. He’s told that story one too many times, she hits on that one buddy every time you see him, you just don’t like hanging out together anymore.

Plus, social occasions put the spotlight on marriages that seem to be great (though don’t underestimate a couples’ ability to put on a good show in public – you’ve done that too, haven’t you?) and can have you thinking more and more about what’s wrong with your own relationship.

Downtime

Nothing forces you to look at your spouse more closely than mutual or individual downtime. Summer means months off from school obligations you have for your kids. You may have days off that your spouse does not and you have time to breathe and think whereas you’re usually running around frantically trying to fit everything into every day that needs to get done.

Downtime is good. You need it to recharge, relax, and to develop new ideas – unfortunately, for some, this downtime affords them the opportunity to finally examine what’s going on in their relationship, and how they’ve been hiding behind a busy schedule instead of facing the reality of a failing marriage.

Remember, summer is a time when the heat is on – hot weather can make tempers rise and crankiness find its footing for far longer than you would like. It’s wise to wait a bit to let your emotions cool and really examine your relationship before you call it quits after one failed trip to the lake. But if you know you’re ready to get moving on a Michigan divorce, contact Femminineo Attorneys PLLC in Mount Clemens for your initial consultation.

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  • Family Law Expertise

    Most lawyers are in a general practice and do some of everything. One of our main focuses is on Family law and being expert at divorce, custody and support matters.

  • Strong Relationships

    We are in court daily, working with the family court judges, their staff and clerks, the Friend of the Court office, the Bar Association and other attorneys working in this area. We pride ourselves on fighting hard for our clients while working well with everyone.

  • Experience

    Our extensive experience and strong relationship with the courts and our peers leads many judges and attorneys to hire us to act as Mediators in other Family Law cases. Make no mistake; having a strong working relationship with the court can have a massive impact on your case. Unlike most attorneys, we have no fear of the court room and are in trial regularly against the best in the business. We see the judges every week and maintain strong ties with their staff.

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    Although every attorney can “handle” your case, Femminineo Attorneys cares about you and your family. We work extremely hard to keep this difficult process civil and to shelter your children from as much of the negative facets as possible.

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    We have handled every possible situation involving domestic law. We will do everything possible to wrap up your case in a timely manner, avoiding delays that cause unnecessary legal fees.

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    When your case cannot be easily solved, we will fight hard and use all of our resources to win. Unlike most attorneys, we have no fear of the court room and we regularly win cases against the best in the business at trial.

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    At Femminineo Attorneys, your case will be handled by an experienced family law attorney. Each of our attorneys in our family law division has many years of experience in handling family law matters.

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