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    4 weeksago
    If there is one thing in life that will test you and show you that you’re stronger than you ever thought possible, it’s a divorce. However, even the toughest person will be tested by the mental, emotional, financial, and logistical demands of this process. Here...
    2 monthsago
    Infidelity is the cause of the breakdown of many marriages. Couples who want to avoid divorce may attempt to repair their union after cheating has occurred, focusing on their connection, children, and lives together rather than indiscretions. It is possible to recover from infidelity but...
    January 3, 2023
    4 weeksago

    If there is one thing in life that will test you and show you that you’re stronger than you ever thought possible, it’s a divorce. However, even the toughest person will be tested by the mental, emotional, financial, and logistical demands of this process. Here are tips for staying strong during your Michigan divorce.

    Don’t Let Nostalgia Take Over

    You’re cleaning out the basement or a holiday closet. You come across your kids’ sweet family portrait drawn in preschool, a cherished gift from your ex, or a decoration that you bought together during your first year of marriage. Nostalgia can make anyone soft but sentimentality about what was could weaken you in your divorce proceedings.

    You’ve been working hard with your Michigan divorce attorney to ensure that you get what you deserve in your split. Now is not the time to get generous and blow up a hard-fought settlement. Your lawyer will be looking out for you and reminding you of your positions, but make you work hard to hear the logic and wisdom and keep moving ahead in the dissolution of your marriage.

    Put Yourself First

    Yes, it is important to put yourself first. Not all the time, of course, especially when the children are involved, but sometimes. If you’re not taking care of yourself during this trying time, you won’t be able to give your family the best of you.

    Self-care might be a buzz word these days, but it’s a worthwhile one. Just make sure you’re clear on what caring for yourself really means. It’s not about showering and getting your hair done, it’s about physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual care, like asking for what you need, setting boundaries, saying no, investing in a passion project, and more.

    Focus on the Future

    It may be hard right now but at this time next year, life will be a little easier. Maybe not in all ways, but in many ways. And the year after that, things will ease even more. In the moment, divorce is a challenging existence. Every day after, though, brings new hope and a way into your new future.

    Instead of holding on to the last little things or being vindictive just to spite your ex, let them go. You know what really matters and what doesn’t. You know what will suck your energy and what will buoy your spirits. Consider this a time of new beginnings rather than sad endings and focus on all the good that lies ahead.

    Find an Ally

    One of the most important things you can have during your Michigan divorce is an ally, someone who understands what you’re going through and is prepared to support you and help you make difficult decisions. For many people, that is their divorce lawyer. They are the impartial party who can see your circumstances for what they are rather than looking at them emotionally or with a history.

    Strength comes from believing in yourself and also knowing that you have people on your side. Your lawyer has your best interests at heart and those of your children. Get the help you need right away so you can launch yourself into a new place in life.  Contact Femminineo Attorneys today for your initial consultation.

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    Family Law Expertise

    Most lawyers are in a general practice and do some of everything. One of our main focuses is on Family law and being expert at divorce, custody and support matters.

    Strong Relationships

    We are in court daily, working with the family court judges, their staff and clerks, the Friend of the Court office, the Bar Association and other attorneys working in this area. We pride ourselves on fighting hard for our clients while working well with everyone.

    Experience

    Our extensive experience and strong relationship with the courts and our peers leads many judges and attorneys to hire us to act as Mediators in other Family Law cases. Make no mistake; having a strong working relationship with the court can have a massive impact on your case. Unlike most attorneys, we have no fear of the court room and are in trial regularly against the best in the business. We see the judges every week and maintain strong ties with their staff.

    We Care

    Although every attorney can “handle” your case, Michigan Divorce Help cares about you and your family. We work extremely hard to keep this difficult process civil and to shelter your children from as much of the negative facets as possible.

    Commitment

    Once your case is concluded, we will be there to help you with any post-judgment problems that may arise.

    Flexibility

    Everyone’s financial situation is different and we work with our clients to formulate a fee arrangement that works within your means.

    Effectiveness

    We have handled every possible situation involving domestic law. We will do everything possible to wrap up your case in a timely manner, avoiding delays that cause unnecessary legal fees.

    Tenacity

    When your case cannot be easily solved, we will fight hard and use all of our resources to win. Unlike most attorneys, we have no fear of the court room and we regularly win cases against the best in the business at trial.

    Expert Staff

    Unlike many attorneys who have a part-time typist and work 30 hours a week, we have an expert staff available all day long to assist you and provide immediate service.

    Personal Service

    At Michigan Divorce Help, your case will be handled by an experienced family law attorney. Each of our attorneys in our family law division has many years of experience in handling family law matters.

    We encourage you to see these differences for yourself and call today to speak with one of our partners or schedule a free consultation at our office.

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