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4 weeksago
The ideas of “peace” and “divorce” do not go together seamlessly for some people. There are couples who are angry, resentful, and unhappy. They anticipate that their divorce will be ugly. But approaching a split with so much vitriol isn’t healthy or productive. Then there...
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If you have children and are in the middle of a divorce or planning to file for Michigan divorce, your journey will include a lengthy discussion about child custody and parenting time. Summertime is a hot-button topic when it comes to getting time with the...
February 17, 2020
5 monthsago

michigan divorce all you thought it would be femminineo attorneysWhen a couple has reached the point where they’re ready for a divorce, they’ve imagined what life will be like without the other person around. That walking on eggshells feeling will be gone, the constant tension will disappear, you’ll have your own turf back and no one can tell you what you can or can’t do. Many people, however, encounter unexpected feelings during their Michigan divorce, like loneliness, frustration, overwhelming responsibility, and fear. It’s important to think about the present and the future as you consider a divorce.

Is Divorce Harder Than Marriage?

Ask someone who’s in an unhappy marriage whether divorce is harder than marriage and they’re likely to say no. They truly believe that anything must be better than the unpleasantness they’re enduring. For some couples, divorce really is the best option, but there are important questions to consider as you mull over this major life change, and how it affects people beyond yourself.

  • What will life be like without the support of your partner, in both good times and bad?
  • How will your lifestyle change because of divorce?
  • How will you help your children cope with divorce?
  • Will divorce negatively affect your career?
  • How will your financial situation change if you have a one-income household or you’re the one paying child support or spousal support?
  • Are you prepared to be single again?
  • Are you mentally and physically prepared to handle divorce?

You don’t want to avoid a divorce you believe in your gut is necessary because you don’t want to fight or you’re afraid to hurt your kids. If your marriage is unhealthy and should end, it will all ultimately work out, though it won’t be easy along the way.

If you’re still doubting whether divorce is the right path to take, take time to consider the above questions thoughtfully and carefully before you say, “I want a divorce.”

Being a Parent During and After Divorce

In the state of Michigan, parenting time is usually divided as equally as possible – for some parents this means far less time with their kids, for others it means far more. How will you cope when you miss your kids if you don’t see them every day, or you’re not the one putting them to bed every night? If you were not the major caregiver but are now expected to manage all aspects of daily care on your days with the kids, it will be a challenge and a learning curve.

Parenting from two different homes also requires a branch of organization that didn’t previously exist. Drop-off and pick-up and shuttling kids to and from activities and events – already a complicated matter – can become a logistical nightmare with two people having to negotiate and keep track of a schedule.

If you were a stay-at-home parent but chose to or had to get a job because of the divorce, you now have a nanny or after-school care to consider, which is an added cost. You’ll be solo parenting much of the time, which is a mental and emotional burden.

Are You Ready for a Michigan Divorce?

Divorce is a major change, and it’s a decision that should never be taken lightly. If you are prepared to end your marriage and ready to talk about getting a Michigan divorce, schedule your initial consultation with the divorce lawyers at Femminineo Attorneys in Macomb. Contact us today to schedule your visit.

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What makes us the right divorce attorneys for you?

Family Law Expertise

Most lawyers are in a general practice and do some of everything. One of our main focuses is on Family law and being expert at divorce, custody and support matters.

Strong Relationships

We are in court daily, working with the family court judges, their staff and clerks, the Friend of the Court office, the Bar Association and other attorneys working in this area. We pride ourselves on fighting hard for our clients while working well with everyone.

Experience

Our extensive experience and strong relationship with the courts and our peers leads many judges and attorneys to hire us to act as Mediators in other Family Law cases. Make no mistake; having a strong working relationship with the court can have a massive impact on your case. Unlike most attorneys, we have no fear of the court room and are in trial regularly against the best in the business. We see the judges every week and maintain strong ties with their staff.

We Care

Although every attorney can “handle” your case, Femminineo Attorneys cares about you and your family. We work extremely hard to keep this difficult process civil and to shelter your children from as much of the negative facets as possible.

Commitment

Once your case is concluded, we will be there to help you with any post-judgment problems that may arise.

Flexibility

Everyone’s financial situation is different and we work with our clients to formulate a fee arrangement that works within your means.

Effectiveness

We have handled every possible situation involving domestic law. We will do everything possible to wrap up your case in a timely manner, avoiding delays that cause unnecessary legal fees.

Tenacity

When your case cannot be easily solved, we will fight hard and use all of our resources to win. Unlike most attorneys, we have no fear of the court room and we regularly win cases against the best in the business at trial.

Expert Staff

Unlike many attorneys who have a part-time typist and work 30 hours a week, we have an expert staff available all day long to assist you and provide immediate service. We are available to our clients 24 hours a day through our hot line at 586-854-3654.

Personal Service

At Femminineo Attorneys, your case will be handled by an experienced family law attorney. Each of our attorneys in our family law division has many years of experience in handling family law matters.

We encourage you to see these differences for yourself and call today to speak with one of our partners or schedule a free consultation at our office.

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